COLLEGE GRAD’S RETURNING HOME – AN ADJUSTMENT FOR PARENTS TOO
Many college graduates are returning back home to live after graduation. Why?
Primarily, it is an economical necessity for the family until your graduate finds the right job.
Although this idea may not be what was anticipated prior to graduation; the current economic downturn has prompted parents to be practical and realistic.
Although returning home may be a financial necessity, it doesn’t have to viewed negatively, or as a step backwards.
However, coming home does require some re-negotiating of various house hold issues; whether it pertains to helping to care for the house, sharing a car, or if younger siblings are still living in the house, being available to assist.
But is also requires respecting each other’s need for privacy, leisure time, and his or her social life.
Hopefully, the twenty-something young adult who is returning home is far more mature and independent today.
If you have done your job well-enough, your graduate should appreciate all that you have given and is grateful to return to a loving home during this period of uncertainty, disappointment or transition.
Coming home may be the best option for your graduate now, despite your young adult imagining it’s the worst.
If you can stay present-focused, offer advice when asked, plus acknowledge feelings (without trying to take over or tell your young adult what he or she should or shouldn’t do) in regards to his or her career and/or personal choices, then your college graduate will gain an invaluable life lesson from you.
Till next time
Dr Andrea Corn
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