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BY DR. ANDREA CORN

Dear Dr. Corn: My 6-year-old daughter has never been interested in participating in sports even though many of her friends are busy after school practicing with their teams. I haven't encouraged her to participate, as I did not grow up playing sports. Instead I am sharing my love of arts and crafts, baking and playing the piano. While these hobbies are important, I would feel badly if I contributed
to her not being physically fit or if she became overweight because she did not get enough ex rcise.
Your concern is on the minds of many parents today. Vith childhood obesity on th rise and with the popularity of sed n ar)' activi ies such as watching television, surfing the Internet and play ing video games, it's no wonder there's a national concern about children's phy i a1 fitness.
The American He t Association recently joined with the William
Jefferson Clinton Foundation and Nickelodeon to pr mote the Alliance for a
Healthi-
Generation. The three organizations have combined their resources to create a public awareness and media campaign, entitled "Let's Just Play," that encourages youngsters to take the pledge and engage in healthy and active lifestyles in order to combat childhood obesity.
Sports participation can be instrumental in teaching a variety of important life lessons, even beyond physical fitness. A number of these behav j ors are transferable and can even enhance a child's academic performances. For instance, giv ing one's best effort, working on overcoming
ad versity, and learning how to be a gracious loser an a considerate winner are components of healthy self-esteem on and off the playing field.
You are in the perfect position to consider what spor or activity would best suit your daughter's personality and lifestyle. You'll also need to take into consideration your afternoon and weekend schedule and your pocketbook.
Some children prefer playing organized team
sports such as soccer, softball or basketball. Others are happier participating in individual sports such as tennis, swimming or golf. Some stay acti\'e and learn the lessons of sports by taking dance or martial arts classes, No particular activi-
ty is better than any other. Organized sports rely
on teamwork and cooperation; there are SElt practices and schedule , and the group's camaraderie elps solidify eir confiqfJDce. Individual sports are better suited for c'hil-

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'entI about making any assump JUt your daughter's current non ~illent in extracurricular sports. lOW she probably enjoys imitating Iterests and following in your f90t-
ware that children can be reluctant themselves in unfamiliar situations ;e of fears of being ridiculed and iated. Sometimes this can result eing teased by peers, while other the child can be her own harshest Regardless of the origin, fear can
lre with a child learning a new activ ake sure to check this out, because if possibility, you'll need to help your Iter persevere past her doubts.
your daughter's age and develop-
11 stage, the focus should be on indi 1 effort and learnufg a new skill, not
letes. She can certainly learn to play any sport at this ~ge.
According to the President's Council on Physical Fitness and Sports. children are more likely to enjoy their sports experi ence if they perceive their parents as hav ing realistic expectations. Children are also successful in sports when their loved ones provide appropriate support and encouragement during and after their ath letic performances.
It will be up to you to take the lead in encouraging a more physical activity. It might also help to ask a few of her friends to share what they like about after-school sports. Collectively this may provide enough motivation for her to join in and play this corning season. If so, the experi ence should teach her that sports partici pation involves a whole lot more than being physically active.
might enjoy bike-riding, roller-sl<anng. walking or hiking. horseback riding, ice skating, or' attending a yoga class with you. Even if she occasionally participates in neighborhood activities such as play ing basketball in the driveway, hide-and seek, or jumping rope or hula-hooping with friends, she is receiving the benefits of physical activity and socialization as these games involve turn-taking, assertiveness and fair play.
As long as your child.has fun and enjoys the experience, she'll likely stay fit and active throughout her life.
Dr. Andrea Com is a child and family psycholo gist in private practice. She is a member of the American Psychological Association and the Association for the Advancement
of Sports Psychologists.

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